Our Love Compatibility Conquers All,
By Gianni

Sept. 9, 2009

I felt a strong love compatibility was possible after my first online chat with Sophie. We typed away for two hours the first day we met on a Christian dating site. I felt so comfortable and natural as I talked with her for the first time. We agreed on everything we talked about, which would become a regular source of humor for us and the foundation of our relationship in the future.

I encourage anyone in pursuit of a good relationship to set a goal of discovering love compatibility. It is easy to fall in love because of sexual attraction and the resulting affection that two people show each other during the beginning phases of dating. But will it make for a good romantic story in the end?

I believe that relationship compatibility is key to building a strong lasting love. That is how it all started with Sophie and I. During our first two hour chat and over the weeks to follow, we discovered that we had so much in common, it seemed insane. I even wrote a poem for Sophie that I entitled “Insanely Compatible”. A love chemistry would begin to explode beneath the surface of our hearts in the near future because of how much we agreed and harmonized with each other on every level of life.

The first characteristic that I believed would help form love compatibility was to find someone who shared similar Christian beliefs. After realizing we had that much in common, we were able to continue building on to our sense of unity from there. We both are insistent on having pets in our lives, and spoiling them at that. We learned that we each have two teenagers the same ages, and that we would be able to empathize and encourage each other in big ways because of that. We also agreed soon after meeting that we would never interfere in each other’s relationship with our respective children.

We recognized relationship compatibility in our combined struggles with divorce. Neither one of us ever thought our first marriages would end in divorce. We didn't want to hurt our children in the process. We didn't want to disappoint God. But we had both reached the end of our ropes emotionally, and were unable to continue as we were for our own sanity sake. We yearned for a love relationship that we never experienced, …and Sophie didn’t even believe that such was possible. I would later be happy to know I changed her mind on that.

Both of us are layed back, quiet, easy going, and tend to “give in” to people. We continued to learn that we both enjoy doing the same kind of activities in our spare time and like a lot of the same foods, …although Sophie is better at eating more healthy foods. Today, even though Sophie and I are now married and are currently living a long distance marriage (we live over 150 miles apart), we know that our love compatibility is the strength of our relationship and we will conquer every obstacle in our way to maintain the wonderful discovery that we have made in each other.

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